Change

People change. It's a fact. Change is often followed by a sense of unfamiliarity, the very reason why some people hate it. There's nothing comforting in unfamiliarity, unless you find comfort in the unknown...or in discomfort. But what if people are just discovering themselves each time?

I used to be a people pleaser (typical tween years) then I changed because it doesn't work for me. It was tiring and it costed me too much. To some people, this could have been a bad change, because now my 'services' are no longer available. To me? One of the best darn things I've ever done for myself.

I think change is scary, but it can be good. We change to cope, to grow and to find, all with the goal to just be happy. With that said, I guess I understand. I can't say I accept or support all changes, because some are too hard or goes against my principles. Whatever the case, at least I understand.

(Of course there are downright bad bad bad changes, like getting addicted to alcohol or drugs and being totally irresponsible etc then it'd be a different story, obviously. Donchu try to be smart with me!)